(copied from Lauren's blog, written by Lauren)
Technically my mom has a blog where she keeps tabs on herself, dad and Janell but she hasn’t posted about Janell’s school dance so I am taking the initiative and doing it for her.
Wednesday:
-Hey Janell, when is your next school dance?
-This Saturday.
–Are you going?
–No.
–Why not? Is it girl’s choice?
–Yes, but I don’t have a date.
– Well (this is where I get to impose sisterly advise), it’s your senior year of high school. No one is in charge of making it fun except yourself. Sometimes you have to be spontaneous and do things you don’t normally do.
This is where Janell should have jumped out of her seat, said “your right Lauren”, grabbed the phone and got a date. She didn’t. I brought it up several times that evening and gave her examples of ways she could casually ask someone. She went to school Thursday still not sure but I texted her a few times and eventually she caved and asked someone. He said “yes”. Once she had the date she took the initiative in finding a group to go with, planning the day date and getting dinner in order (takeout panda express served formally at home on the fine china and Asian dishes, my idea). We went shopping Friday night for a sweater for her dress as well as accessories and arranged for Mirinda to do her hair and makeup the day
of. Janell also helped me make a cake with the fresh lemons Bob gave Mirinda and I while we were in California. The cake was AMAZING. Planning was quite an ordeal but Janell handled it really well and she and her date had a great time. On Sunday when I came home from church she was rifling through our library of formal dresses (three sisters later) already planning her wardrobe for Prom.



